Now that we have confirmed our appointment, there are a few things I would like to let you know in advance so our time together flows as smoothly as possible…

My Fee

Please have my fee ready in large bills (50s or 100s) and neatly placed in an unsealed envelope before our date. 

Incall: As soon as you arrive at my location, please place the envelope on the requested visible surface in front of me.

Outcall: If I am coming to your location, be sure to have my envelope waiting on the bathroom counter. 


Please do not wear any cologne, perfume, or heavily scented deodorant as I am sensitive to fragrances and certain chemicals.

Incall: After you arrive and my fee is received, I will lead you to the bathroom to shower regardless of if you have just showered prior. Toiletries and fresh towels will be available.

Outcall: Please be freshly showered shortly before I arrive at your location, or you can shower once I arrive.

Bondage Preparation

If you would like to experience light to heavy bondage, it is important to have a balanced meal and hydrate with plenty of water before playing. 

Not drinking enough water or eating enough food can cause dehydration or low blood sugar. This can result in dizziness or fainting. If you are prone to this or have certain conditions that cause fainting, please be sure to take care of yourself as described above before you arrive.

Anal play Preparation

If you would like to receive anal play and/or strap-on during our time together, please let me know before we meet so I can bring the appropriate supplies and toys.

Before we delve into anal play, being clean inside and out is important for our mutual comfort. 

  1. Avoid spicy or greasy food and coffee the day of our date if possible. Food high in fiber will keep things clean and moving smoothly.

  2. When showering, wash your bottom thoroughly and use a bit of soap on your finger to clean inside of your bum and rinse well.

  3. Either purchase a reusable enema bulb like this one from Amazon, or you can buy a Fleet enema from any drugstore.

  4. Follow this step at least an hour before playing to allow all of the water to release: If using a Fleet, pour out the saline solution and instead fill it with lukewarm or warm water (tap or filtered).

  5. Lay on your side or bottoms up for comfort, lube up the nozzle, and slowly (to avoid cramping) squeeze/release the enema inside of you. Hold the water in you until the pressure makes it necessary to release into the toilet.

  6. You may want to do this 2-3 times if necessary until the water runs clear. Be patient as it takes some time for an enema to fully release.

If you plan to engage in depth play or fisting, I recommend using an enema bag for deeper cleaning. Follow the same steps above. To avoid dehydration, do not use too much liquid or do this too often.