Now that we have confirmed our date, there are a few things I would like to let you know in advance so our time together flows as smoothly as possible.
My Fee
Please have my cash fee ready and neatly placed in an unsealed envelope, book from my wishlist, or vinyl record before we meet. My consideration must be presented at the beginning of our date. Larger bills such as 50s or 100s are highly preferred.
Incall: As soon as you arrive at my location, place the fee on a visible surface upon arrival.
Outcall: If I am coming to your location, be sure to have my fee waiting on the bathroom counter.
Meeting in Public: Please place my fee in a greeting card inside of an envelope, book, or gift bag.
If you desire to extend our time during the date (my schedule permitting), please bring the additional fee via cash or have it available via Venmo.
Covid Precautions
I require you to take a rapid Covid test at least 3 hours before we meet on the day of our date and send me a photo of it- I'll do the same. This practice builds trust and ensures our mutual comfort and safety. If it isn’t sent within this timeframe, I will have to cancel our date with the full fee due.
If at any time I believe I was exposed to Covid, a cold or flu, begin to show symptoms of being sick, or test positive- I will cancel our date and reschedule as soon as I am well. I expect that you will do the same for me. I’ll never knowingly put you at risk and trust you’ll extend me the same consideration.
Bondage Preparation
If you would like to experience light to heavy bondage, it is important to eat a balanced meal and hydrate with plenty of water beforehand. Not having enough water or food can cause dehydration or low blood sugar. This can result in dizziness or fainting. If you are prone to this or have certain conditions that cause vertigo, fainting or seizures, please let me know.
Hygiene
I will always arrive fresh for a date and expect the same in return. Please ensure your nails (both hands and feet) are clean, trimmed, and filed short.
Incall: I’ll ask you to shower upon arrival. Toiletries, fresh towels, and washcloths will be available. You are welcome to shower again after our date, or we can even rinse off together if you desire.
Outcall: Please be freshly showered shortly before I arrive at your location, or at the beginning of our date. If meeting at your home, please tidy up and have fresh towels and bedding.
Please do not wear any cologne, perfume, or heavily scented deodorant as I am allergic to synthetic fragrances and certain chemicals. This also applies to scented candles and air freshener. Essential oils and naturally scented body products are ok.
Anal Play Preparation
Before we delve into anal play, being clean inside and out is important for our mutual comfort.
1) I recommend avoiding spicy or greasy food, legumes, and coffee the day of our date. Food high in fiber will keep things clean and moving smoothly, as well as psyllium husk.
2) I suggest purchasing a small or large reusable enema bulb, or you can buy a Fleet enema from any pharmacy. Please bring one along to our date in case additional prep is needed.
3) Follow this next step at least an hour before playing to allow all of the water to release: If using a Fleet, pour out the saline solution and instead fill it with lukewarm or warm water.
4) Lay on your side or bottoms up for comfort, lube up the nozzle, and slowly (to avoid cramping) squeeze/release the enema inside of you and then pull the nozzle out. Hold the water in you until the pressure makes it necessary to release into the toilet.
5) You may want to do this 2-3 times if necessary until the water runs clear. Be patient as it takes some time for an enema to fully release.
6) When showering, wash your bottom thoroughly and use a bit of soap on your finger to clean inside of your bum and rinse well.
If you plan to engage in depth play or fisting, I recommend using an enema bag or enema shower attachment for deeper cleaning. Follow the same steps above. To avoid dehydration, do not use too much liquid or do this too many times.